Resources

Welcome to a resource page especially for pastors’ spouses. The purpose of the page is to offer you some helpful resources.

Articles

"Local Women Balance Work, Family Life with Being Pastor's Wives" (Appeared January 30, 2010 in The Grand Rapids Press.)  Be encouraged by the stories of three pastors' wives who share a common bond in the joys and challenges of being married to a pastor.  Despite the struggles they've face in their marriage, family, and ministry, they've learned to balance their roles and find great blessing in being "the pastor's wife."

Books

The Beautiful Wife – Focused on Christ, Fulfilled in Marriage by Sandy Ralya
Since 2000, author and speaker Sandy Ralya has ministered to thousands of wives through her book, and Christian marriage ministry, Beautiful Womanhood.  Drawing from personal mentoring experiences which transformed her life and marriage, Ralya has developed a mentoring curriculum. which is ideal for one-on-one mentoring or small group use.  Beautiful Womanhood trains and equips mentors, encourages wives, and helps women build community with other wives. For more information on Sandy’s book and ministry, please visit www.beautifulwomanhood.com

The Emotionally Charges Church by Peter Scazzero 

The Private Lives of Pastors’ Wives by Ruth Tucker
     *If you live in the US or Canada and would like to request a free copy of Ruth's book, please email Lis Van
     Harten at pastoralexcellence@crcna.org

Retreats
Sandy Cove Ministries – A Mini Sabbatical for Women in Ministry: for pastors’ spouses

Situated on the shore of the beautiful Chesapeake Bay near the town of North East, Maryland, Sandy Cove offers 3-day mini sabbaticals for pastors’ spouses and other women in ministry.  With no formal program or meetings to attend, it’s a self-directed opportunity for relaxation, refreshment, and fellowship with others in ministry.  For retreat dates, fees and additional information, visit www.sandycove.org/docs/minisabbaticals.php.

Websites

Clergy Care Network – For the Pastor’s Wife